Loneliness - Christ prayed alone, leaving behind even his nearest three. Jesus also taught that "when you pray you are to pray in secret so that the Father who seeth in secret shall reward you openly". Family prayers, prayers in Church and in prayer meetings are also essential in worship; but these are collective prayers and meant for a congregation. But when it comes to private prayer, when you want a personal communication with God, praying all alone is the most effective way.
Humbleness - According to Luke, the physician and one of the Gospel writers; Jesus "knelt" when He prayed on the Mount of Olives. And according to Mathew, Jesus "fell on His face" and prayed. Everywhere you find that people knelt down in prayer. Gideon's three hundred men, Solomon at his prayer of dedication, the faith of the Canaanite woman are just a few instances. Humility before God is an absolute necessity.
Filial - When praying Jesus called out saying "Abba" meaning "Father". The relationship between a father and a child is sacrosanct . The eldest son, the first born gets the birth right. The prodigal son returns home, a destitute; the father welcomes him home with open arms. As a subject, you have limited rights. But as a child you have all the rights to ask anything of the father. Ask of him and you will receive.
Perseverance - You are asked to pray three times a day. Daniel did. You are to pray at the third, the sixth and the ninth hours of the day. In our timings at Nine, Twelve and Three o'clock. More than what Christians are asked to do, Muslims pray five times a day; in the morning, at noon, in the afternoon, in the evening and at night. This goes to show that perseverance in prayer is one of the basic requirements.
Resignation - Even though with filial attachment you can ask God for almost anything, you should have the attitude to accept what he gives. Jesus knew that His time was come. Yet when he prayed he said "Not what I will, but what thou wilt". Resign your self to the will of God.
Other than this when we pray to God we should:
- First THANK him for all that he has done for you. Thanksgiving is the most important part of a prayer. You have been blessed with a lot of things, some you asked for and some you did not. But God gave them to you and you should be thankful. To go a step further, you should thank God for what you want though you still haven't got it. This is something like thanking a relative, a friend or an acquaintance for something that he/she hasn't given to you as yet. It makes him/her stop and wonder whether he/she has to give you something. God, of course, is not going to be fooled as easily as that, but He will definitely appreciate the gesture and if He deems it fit that you should get what you asked for, He will give it to u. Most often He does.
- Next PRAISE Him. Praise is an essential part of prayer. Praise and prayer are inseparably conjoined in the Scriptures. In the days of the Old Testament sacrifice was an express of praise to God for his goodness. By praising God, you celebrate his protection and deliverance of you.
- Finally comes WORSHIP. When you worship God you adore him and you glorify him. Worship comes in many forms. In the olden days God was worshiped with song and dance. We now restrict ourselves to singing.
Following the precepts outlined above we can effectively communicate with God.
Oliver S. Daniel is a Freelance Writer of a variety of articles and can be reached at jayasingh.daniel@yahoo.co.in